Kitchen & Conversation — B Street Sunday Dinner

Celebrating Fall & the Clarity of What’s Possible

Editor’s Note Dinner Missive Recipe Conversation Reflection

Editor’s Note

This week’s dinner invited us to slow down with the season. As the leaves outside shift their colors, so do the quiet truths inside of us. Marquis’ missive, “Voices of Our Day: Falling N2U,” opened a doorway for reflection—on what’s turning, what’s releasing, and what’s preparing to emerge. Tonight’s soup was built in that same spirit: warm, grounded, rooted in memory and motion. Let this be a bowl you return to in your own time of becoming.

Dinner Missive

Recipe

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Greens & Sweet Potato Peanut Stew

(serves 12–15)


Ingredients

  • 2 tablespoons olive oil
  • 1 medium onion (mix of sweet + yellow), small dice
  • 1 ½ tablespoons minced garlic
  • 1 ½ tablespoons grated ginger
  • 1 tablespoon toasted ground cumin seed
  • 1 tablespoon toasted ground coriander seed
  • 1 tablespoon toasted ground chili flakes (arbol, guajillo, mulato)
  • 2 teaspoons dried thyme
  • 1 tablespoon tomato paste
  • 1 bay leaf
  • ½ tablespoon salt (adjust to taste)
  • ½ tablespoon black pepper
  • 2 quarts vegetable stock
  • ½ pound dried black-eyed peas, soaked overnight
  • 3–4 medium sweet potatoes, peeled and medium dice
  • 1 bunch collard greens, destemmed and ¼-inch sliced (loose chiffonade)
  • ½ bunch mustard greens, destemmed and ¼-inch sliced
  • ½ cup peanut butter
Garnishes
  • Nut–seed coconut crumble (grain-free granola chopped small)
  • Maple–sherry gastrique (equal parts maple syrup + sherry vinegar + splash of water, reduced to thicken)
  • Sliced green onions
  • Cilantro pluches
  • Extra toasted chili flakes (optional)

Method

  1. Build the aromatics
    Heat olive oil over medium in a heavy-bottomed pot.
    Add diced onion and cook until translucent.
    Stir in garlic and ginger; cook until fragrant.
  2. Bloom the spices
    Add tomato paste, cumin, coriander, chili flakes, and thyme.
    Cook until the tomato paste darkens to a burnt orange and the spices bloom.
  3. Add stock + peas
    Pour in vegetable stock.
    Add bay leaf, salt, black pepper, and soaked black-eyed peas.
    Bring to a boil, then reduce to a simmer and cook until peas begin to soften.
  4. Add sweet potatoes
    Stir in diced sweet potatoes and simmer until they are about ¾ cooked.
  5. Add the greens
    Add collards and mustard greens (¼-inch sliced).
    Simmer until the greens soften and deepen the broth.
  6. Integrate the peanut butter
    In a small bowl, whisk the peanut butter with 1–1½ cups hot broth until smooth.
    Pour back into the pot and stir to combine.
  7. Adjust + finish
    Taste and adjust seasoning—salt, acid, heat, and body.
    Remove bay leaf.
  8. Serve
    Ladle soup into bowls.
    Top with nut–seed crumble, a drizzle of maple–sherry gastrique, sliced green onions, cilantro, and extra chile flakes if desired.

Improv note

Your pantry is part of the recipe. Cynthia used a grain-free granola for the nut crumble—coconut flakes, pecans, almonds, sunflower seeds—because that’s what was in her kitchen. The chile blend came from arbol, guajillo, and mulato because that’s what she had. The lesson: follow the rhythm of what’s present, not the pressure of what’s expected. The soup will meet you where you are.

Conversation Reflection

Opening Question

“What in your life is turning color right now—and what is it trying to tell you?”


Reflection Exercise: What Is Falling Away?

A guided inquiry for dinner tables or small circles. Move slow. No rushing, no forcing, no performing.

Step 1: Identify the Leaves

  • What feels “beautiful but brittle” in my life right now?
  • What have I been holding on to out of habit, fear, or identity?
  • What has stopped feeding me even though it used to?

Name at least three things—relationships, roles, beliefs, obligations, patterns, or expectations.

Step 2: Listen to the Season

  • What season did this belong to?
  • How do I know it’s no longer aligned with where I’m growing?
  • What is the cost of trying to keep it alive?

Let honesty outrun sentiment.

Step 3: Discern the Compost

Not everything that falls is a loss. Some things become soil.

  • What wisdom does this give me?
  • What did this season teach, reveal, or expose?
  • How is this fall preparing me for emergence?

Step 4: Release Without Argument

Say (silently or aloud):
“I bless what was.
I release what is done.
I make space for what is coming.”

Step 5: Notice the New Roots

Every fall hides a beginning.

  • What am I sensing beneath the surface?
  • What desires, intuitions, or invitations are starting to root in me?
  • What feels like early spring inside a fall season?

No need to resolve. Just notice.